Monday, April 26, 2010

Trash Talk

This afternoon, we experienced another aspect of diabetes.

We were at Jack's baseball practice, and Jack had just run from first base to second. Jack paused at second base and then ran toward the dugout, where I was sitting.

Then, all of a sudden, an argument began.

"Jack, you're a cheater!" his teammate yelled.

"I am NOT a cheater!" he yelled back, still running toward me.

"You are! You're not supposed to just run to third base like that! You're a cheater!"

"I'm NOT a cheater! I'm not running to third base! I know how to play the game! I feel low!"

By the time he reached me, Jack not only felt low, but frustrated and hurt, too.

Damn diabetes! I hate how it puts Jack in positions like this. I hate how it affects others' perceptions of him.

I tested his blood sugar, and he was indeed low at 53.

It was hard for me to sit back and simply treat his low. I wanted to march out onto the field and give that kid a piece of my mind. But I know that kid. He's a really good kid. He knows all about Jack's diabetes, but he obviously didn't put two and two together today. So I stayed put and kept quiet.

Jack guzzled a bottle of juice and then ran back out onto the field. He didn't want to take it easy. He wanted to keep playing. Even more, he wanted to clear his reputation.

He ran right over to the boy, who'd called him a cheater, and explained why he left the field.

He continued to play for roughly another fifteen minutes, before visiting me again for another blood sugar check. He was at 70 and needed more carbs.

No one yelled, criticized or called him a nasty name when he left the field the second time. That was a good thing, because at that point, I would have marched out there and given the team the ol' D talk...nicely, of course. But, a D mom's gotta do what a D mom's gotta do!

8 comments:

  1. Oh...I so feel your's and Jack's pain. I hate when D messes with our little guys and their sports, events, activities...when it messes with their innocence...their moments of just being a kid. That is when tears sting my eyes and I become angry.

    Sounds like you and Jack handled it great...with grace and integrity. Glad that everyone "got it" the second time around and that his friend understood after Jack explained himself. It sucks though that it has to be an issue...that it seeps into EVERYTHING our children do.

    LOVE you dear friend!

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  2. I think you handled it great! And so did he :)
    I would be proud that he talked to his friend rather than ignoring it. I wish D was more predictable so they didn't have to go through all of this.

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  3. That has got to be so hard! I have not been through anything like that yet, as Jacob is still so young... but I know my day is coming. I hope I can handle it with as much grace and patience as you did! =)

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  4. Good for you! Both of you. Like Reyna said, it sucks that it's part of everything, but it's great that some people can understand, even if they forget from time to time.

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  5. Bless his heart, and good for him for letting his friend know what was going on! Those moments break my heart.

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  6. My brow is furrowed. I feel for you guys, but good for him for doing what he had to do. I know it's hard on them to draw attention to themselves and I know Caleb sometimes waits longer than he should because of it. I'm glad he did what he had to and continued out the game. Darn diabetes.

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  7. I think it is a huge testament to you and your boy that he stopped doing something he loves to take care of himself. It really isn't fair what D does to our kiddos. You both handled this beautifully.

    April

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  8. Hi Heidi!

    I'm so glad you posted on my blog because it led me to yours! I love the title Jacks Pack. Too cute.

    I did a quick read over your earlier post with the omnipod. Matthew is toying with the idea of a pump. We sent away for a sample, but he hasn't wanted to try it yet. Time will tell....

    Also, seeing your son with those cute animals in his bed reminded me so much of my son. He'll be 10 this fall, but he's still a softie when it comes to stuffed animals.

    Can't wait to get to know you better! : )

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